ok, i got a rose from a stranger. It was at a pre-valentine's party Saturday. i have seen the person at this club before but we don't know each other. he's never attempted to ever talk to me. And of course i completely did nothing other then the initial Thank you when he tapped me on the shoulder and gave me the rose and I said oh, thank you. He basically walked away at that point.
I feel really really bad. i thought about giving it back to him stating I can't accept it. What does it mean when someone gives you a rose? (it was red, it was being passed out at the club for the occasion. however not everyone got one. it was if someone got it to give to someone).
He tried to dance with me later on (i think he was drinking a lot and was dancing with several others) anyway, i did not. I don't like to dance with others nor really know how to.
I've been thinking that i should write him a note. Another Thank you for making me feel special with the rose. And hope he doesn't think i was a jerk
What does it mean to receive a rose from a stranger?
I dont think that you need to write him a thank you for it. But maybe next time you see him try to talk to him alittle instead of writing him a thank you, which could be very impersonal. If he gave it to you because he was to shy to talk to you, it would make him feel good, just as the rose made you feel good.
Reply:Maybe he thought you looked sad and wanted to cheer you up. I would think if he was all that interested he would have at least said something when he gave it to you.
Reply:I don't know if a stranger giving a stranger a rose at a bar has any significance. It could be he just happened to have a flower and he wanted to do something nice for a stranger or for a woman. It could be his rose was a precursor to asking you to dance.
Since you already thanked him, there's no need to write him a note. (However, if you're interested, a note could be an encouragement for him to pursue you further.)
If he pursues you, you could say something like, "Thank you for making me feel special with the rose, and thanks for asking me to dance, but I usually don't like to dance with strangers." If you want, you could invite him to sit and talk with you, or ask him a question about himself, like, "Where do you come from?"
If you're not interested, then after you've thanked him, you could add, "However, I'm sorry, but you're not the type that I like to go out with" or "I'm sorry, but I don't think it will work between us."
Reply:Did he give roses out to any other girls?
I would just take it as a compliment and nothing else. There is NO need to give him a Thank You note... like you said he had been drinking alot.
Reply:Maybe he likes you and was too shy to talk to you. Or maybe he just thought you needed a cheering up. Weird though that he did not talk to you.
Reply:Sounds like he would like to get to know you and doesn't really know how you would respond. No need to write a thank you note. If you are interested in getting to know him, just tell him thank you and start a conversation. If you have no interest, just ignore him, he will get the picture.
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Reply:STALKER
Haha jk jk. Maybe he's shy and couldn't thnik of anything to say, so he thought a rose would be the equivilant of "I like you."
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